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Multifaith Works Quarterly Newsletter - Winter 2004 - 2005 |
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Saving Lives, Changing Lives:
World AIDS Day Benefit Luncheon
Wednesday, December 1st, 12:00 -
1:30 pm
Washington State Convention and Visitors Center
THANK YOU!
Many thanks to everyone who helped us hold
a very successful Multifaith Works World AIDS Day Benefit Luncheon on
December 1st. Because of your generosity, we were able to raise over
$45,000 which will benefit our programs for people living with AIDS or
other life-threatening illnesses.
Luncheon Sponsors
Home Street Bank, Bailey-Boushay House, Johnson-Haefling Foundation, Regence
BlueShield, Adams Insurance Agency, The Glosten Associates, Human Rights
Campaign, Vulcan Inc., Pride Foundation (endorsing sponsor).
Other Special Acknowledgements
Matt Ketcham of Ketcham Design for creating the table centerpieces,
ProMotion Arts and Steve Crandall for producing the Multifaith Works video,
Seattle Men’s Chorus for the AIDS memorial quilt, St. Mark’s Cathedral
for the interfaith banners, the Luncheon Planning Committee, and the
Luncheon Table Captains.
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Delicate
Journeys
...I have a deeper
appreciation for how sacred and important the work of Shanti is.
by Annee Fisher, Shanti Volunteer
I completed the Shanti volunteer training in June, 2004. In July, I was
diagnosed with Barrett’s Esophagus, which mainly presents as acid reflux
disease, but, as I’ve come to learn, is a pre-cancerous condition of the
esophagus. Although a small percentage of folks go on to develop esophageal
cancer, and although I have every intention of living a long, happy life, it has
taken me to some interesting places emotionally and spiritually. As my body
struggles with the medicine I must take for the rest of my life, I have acquired
not only the perspective of the volunteer, but the client as well: what will I
do if this gets worse? How does this affect how I see myself and define myself?
What do I still want to get done?
This experience has brought the training home to me in
startling ways, and I have a deeper appreciation for how sacred and important
the work of Shanti is. I have watched family and friends offer their support and
listen whenever fears come up, but at times, I can feel their fear alongside my
own. It comforts me to know there are programs like Shanti stepping into the gap
with support and compassion, serving as witnesses to the profound and delicate
journeys people make in their lives. Knowing you are there helps me feel less
alone.
I still hope to become an active Shanti volunteer someday soon. In the meantime,
I am very grateful for my training and all the work you do. I am also grateful
that the door is open so I can eventually return and give back as a volunteer.
Clients Create Community
...This is our permanent home,
not a temporary place… we have to be able to get along.
by Pamela Bradburn, Multifaith Works
Intern
Community:
that place and feeling of belonging and acceptance and mutual responsibility. We
humans need it to live wholly and healthily. But can community be created
intentionally?
Ariel House is a collaborative project of Multifaith Works and the Multiple
Sclerosis Association of King County (MSA). It is one of the first homes of its
kind designed specifically for people disabled by multiple sclerosis (MS).
Ariel House residents have tried and
succeeded at building community. One resident commented, “The people here are an
involuntary family. We didn’t choose each other: MS chose us. This is our
permanent home, not a temporary place… we have to be able to get along.”
Ariel House is unique in that it
operates without a live-in House Manager. Grace Neill, Multifaith Works Lead
House Manager, serves as the off-site manager and facilitates weekly house
meetings, also attended by MSA staff. For a long time, that hour once a week was
the only time the residents spent with each other; the rest of the week they
lived alone, but in each other’s physical presence. As a Multifaith Works intern
studying at Seattle University’s School of Theology and Ministry, I was asked to
assist Grace by helping the clients to create a better community climate for
their home.
There were lots of symptoms of the lack
of community: dirty dishes in the sink, cooking messes on the countertops, loud
and competing televisions, and sharp words flung around. Rather than focusing on
the symptoms, our discussions centered on the kind of atmosphere the clients
wanted for their home. I met with the residents, and we spent time talking about
how to talk with each other. Now our “Guidelines for Respectful Communication”
reside in a frame on the mantel. The residents now know how to speak out in a
way that does not attack when one does something that creates a real problem for
another. Of course this approach is not always used, since we humans are far
from perfect, but each time it is used another bit of trustworthy, communal
relationship forms.
The proof is in the
pudding, or in this case, in the fried chicken and popcorn the clients shared
one night in their first dinner together. They may still grouse about one being
stuck with the chores, but they share meals, chat companionably, and are
noticeably happier. They have taken their involuntary family and reworked it
into a genuine community.
Guidelines for
Respectful Communication at Ariel House
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We will talk about and
appropriately share the work in the common areas of the house: laundry;
bathrooms; living room, and kitchen.
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We will talk about and
take ownership of our own assumptions, thoughts, and feelings.
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We will be aware of our
tone of voice and what it may suggest.
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We will work hard at not
interrupting each other.
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We will be sensitive to
each other's readiness to talk.
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We will assume
incompetence rather than malevolence (good intentions rather than bad).
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We will be gentle with
each other, because we all fight deep battles.
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Giving Spotlight |
It's That Time of Year Again!
by Gary Southerton, Development Coordinator
The Holidays are rapidly approaching, and another year is winding down. As
we prepare to say goodbye to the old and welcome the new, there are two
important ways to save money now, save money later, and make a real
difference in the lives of those living with AIDS, Multiple Sclerosis, or
other life-threatening illnesses.
You can save money now, especially on income taxes, by making a charitable
contribution by December 31st. By making a donation, you can save on your
income taxes. For example, a $1000 contribution to charity can save an
average of $333 on income taxes to Uncle Sam.
You can save money later and create a permanent personal legacy by
remembering your favorite charities in your will. These contributions are
vitally important to the overall health and well being of non-profit
organizations, and offer you the assurance that a portion of your estate
will continue to fund causes that have always been important to you.
Multifaith Works depends on you and your generosity to continue to help
those living with AIDS, MS or other life-threatening illnesses. Please
consider making a gift today and remembering Multifaith Works in you will.
If you do, you will have the satisfaction of knowing that you have made a
difference and have saved money in the process!
If you are interested in learning more about how your gift can benefit
you, please contact Gary at 206.324.1520 x229 or
gary@multifaith.org.
Please
consider making a
secure online donation to Multifaith Works! |
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Pursuing Equality |
Make a
Date: Faith-based Rally
for Marriage Equality and
Equal Civil Rights for All
Valentine’s Day, Monday, February 14
Noon to 1:00 pm
Capitol Steps, Olympia, Washington
The Religious Coalition of Washington (RCE) is inviting thousands of
people from across Washington State to demonstrate support for marriage
equality.The 2005 Washington State legislative
session will face the question of marriage equality and legislation to
prohibit discrimination based upon sexual orientation. Critical decisions
will be made about marriage in our state. We must join together to
demonstrate to legislators that there are people of faith and religious
leaders who support marriage equality, who support passage of legislation
which will prohibit discrimination based upon sexual orientation, and who
support the repeal of Washington’s Defense of Marriage Act.
Organizations and individuals alike will combine to deliver this message.
Please join us as we ask the Legislature to support marriage for all
loving couples.
Please contact the RCE to let us know how you, your
congregation, or organization can contribute to this event. Thank you!
Please contact Stan Kehl at 206-930-6253 or
stankehl@religiouscoalition-wa.org. Website:
www.religiouscoalition-wa.org.
To love and to be
loved
is to feel the sun
from both sides.
David Viscott, MD
psychiatris & author |
Pursuing Equality
by Dr. Stephen Jones, Seattle First Baptist
Church
We are going to Olympia as Religious Leaders and Members of Congregations
to support marriage equality for all couples and to support legislation to
prohibit discrimination in Washington State based on sexual orientation.
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This is a justice issue, plain and simple.
It compares most obviously to anti-miscegenation laws that once outlawed
inter-racial marriage. Many felt that allowing couples of different races
to marry would challenge the foundation of marriage. It hasn’t.
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There are over 1300 federal benefits
and over 300 state benefits automatically granted to heterosexual couples
that are automatically withheld from homosexual couples. No legal
agreement could be broad enough to bring all those rights up to the same
standards. This places an unnecessary and unconstitutional burden on same
sex couples.
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Same sex couples are not a threat to
opposite sex couples. We do not have to live in different worlds. Much can
be gained by our attempting to strengthen others’ relationships,
regardless of orientation. Many of the issues, joys and challenges faced
by couples are the same, regardless of whether they are a same-sex or
opposite-sex couple. Homosexual couples don’t wish to be a cause; they
don’t desire any harm to heterosexual couples. They just want equal
rights.
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As [organized religions], we have railed
against promiscuity and casual sexual relationships. The paramount issue
here is monogamy. We have couples who want to make life-long vows of love
and support. Will we as a society encourage them or discourage them? That
is the real question.
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Every effort to maintain “separate but
equal” rights in our country has failed miserably. We could advocate for
“civil unions” for homosexual couples and “marriage” for heterosexual
couples, but the rights would never be equal. No one is trying to force
congregations to accept homosexual couples. That isn’t the issue. The
issue is whether our government will discriminate against some couples and
offer preferential treatment to others. This is un-American. Marriage
offers many legal and civil rights, and it must be made available on the
same basis to all adult couples who seek it.
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A
Transition
by Mark Johnson, Casa Luis House Manager
In
October, I was hired as the Multifaith Works
Casa Luis House Manager. Born and raised in Yakima, Washington, and I have
now moved to Seattle to live in Casa Luis. I initially began working in
the HIV/AIDS community in Yakima about nine years ago. This started when
one of my best friends was diagnosed with HIV/AIDS. During this time, I
went through the lows and highs with him, helping him to cope with all the
issues that he faced. I became a volunteer with Care Bears and the New
Hope Clinic, and delivered food to clients, took them to doctors’
appointments, and generally made sure they had what they needed. I also
became a care provider for HIV positive people who needed someone to cook
and clean for them.
In the winter of 1999, my friend started going downhill.
His health was declining, and he needed a live-in care provider. He had
several caregivers at the time, but I did not feel that he was receiving
the support that he deserved. I stepped in to take care of him. This was a
real eye-opening experience for me as I watched him in the final stages of
his life.
After his death, I continued to work with other clients
over the next few years as a care provider. Then, in 2001, I took a job
with the Yakima County Coalition for the Homeless managing their HIV/AIDS
housing program (New Hope House), and worked there until I joined the
Multifaith Works staff. My time managing the New Hope House offered me
many new experiences with a wide variety of people. I worked closely with
my co-workers and performed a variety of other duties in the office,
working with governmental grant programs such as Housing Opportunities for
People with AIDS, Ryan White, and the Reach program. As time went on, I
was assigned other duties such as managing our family homeless shelter.
Over the years, I have found that working in the AIDS
community is something I truly have a passion for, and I am grateful to
Multifaith Works for this
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The first duty
of love is to listen.
Paul Tillich |
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Supporting Multifaith Works |
2005
Multifaith Calendars:
Seasons of the Soul
The Soul can be understood with many different names as the very essence of
life and being. Some of those names are depicted in the visual images of
this 2005 edition of the Multifaith Calendar.
Reference to those names can be sourced in different ways from various
traditions and teachings. For example, some people
would refer to those names as the Gifts of the Spirit, or the Names of God,
or even the Qualities of Divinity. Also, the different ages of life, from
birth to death, give further wisdom to the Soul, as do the various annual
cycles of the seasons of nature to those for whom the natural world is an
essential part of their Spiritual Guidance and Guardianship.
With whatever source one would use, the Soul holds in its essence an
abundance of “Seasons,” each one revealing various values and virtues of
religious and spiritual living. The visual images of each month in this
calendar offer different characteristics of what is being referred to as
“The Seasons of the Soul.” $15 each plus shipping. |
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Multifaith
Merchandise
Ahura Peace Necklaces
"Ahura" is derived from the
Zoroastrianism meaning, "Good Spirit" or "Angel." 16" pewter chain with 4"
extension, 11 pewter faith symbol charms. $25 each. Click on image for a larger
photo.
Hozho Peace Necklaces
Hozho is the Navajo work for "A
way of life." Eleven pewter faith symbol charms
dangle from a black waxed cotton cord that adjusts from 16" to 14."
$25 each. Click on image for a larger
photo.
Multifaith Works mugs, Tshirts, hats,
Jewish & Christian AIDS Pins, and more...
Please click
for further information about other multifaith merchandise.
To order any of these items, please mail a check made payable to Multifaith Works at
1801 - 12th Ave. Suite A, Seattle, WA 98122. Please write the item and quantity in the memo line. Visa, MasterCard, and American Express are also accepted. For more information, call
206.324.1520 x221 or email
info@multifaith.org
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Got a Car to Donate?
Multifaith Works is now able to accept donations
of cars, whether running or not. Simply call Andrea at 206.324.1520 x225 or
email info@multifaith.org. Once we
obtain the necessary information about your car or truck, an auction/towing
company will arise for pickup, title transfer, and voila: you get a tax credit
and Multifaith Works gets a cash donation.
As a housing provider, Multifaith
Works is always seeking houses to develop into supportive homes for people
living with AIDS and other illnesses. Receiving a house in donation, or
rent-free for a number of years cuts our development costs significantly, which
in turn means we are able to put a new home "on line" in much shorter
time. So, if you have a house to spare, running or not, please consider donating
it to Multifaith Works.
Workplace Giving
There are many easy ways to show
your support of Multifaith Works. Workplace Giving Campaigns offer you the
chance to give to Multifaith Works through payroll deductions. For campaigns at
public sector workplaces, Multifaith Works is found under Local Independent
Charities (LIC). For the most benefit to our agency, please direct your
contribution specifically to our agency.
In addition, Multifaith Works is a
United Way partner agency and you can support us by contributing to the
Community Safety net or more directly by writing our name in the donor choice
section of the pledge form.
If your employer matches gifts, please
be sure to participate in its matching gift program because doubles your
contribution to us. SAFECO, Microsoft, Washington Mutual, Boeing, and many
others have corporate matching gift programs.
For information about giving
opportunities with Multifaith Works, please contact Gary Southerton at
206.324.1520 x229 or gary@multifaith.org. |
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Wish
List
If you have items to donate, please call
206.324.1520 x221 or
email info@multifaith.org
Televisions •
VCR’s • Lamps • Comforters • Linens
Adhesive backed flip chart paper • New or used computers, 4
years old or newer • Adobe Creative Suite software |
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THANK YOU!
We
are grateful for the following sponsors of our World AIDS Day Luncheon:
HomeStreet Bank, Bailey-Boushay House, Regence BlueShield, Johnson-Haefling
Foundation, Adams Insurance Agency, Human Rights Campaign, The Glosten
Associates, Vulcan Inc., Pride Foundation (endorsing sponsor).
Thanks to the following faith communities for their
recent financial contributions: Central Lutheran Of Holy Trinity, Dignity/Seattle, Fauntleroy
Church UCC, First United Methodist of Auburn, Immaculate Conception,
Inglewood Presbyterian Church, Newport Presbyterian, Plymouth
Congregational UCC, Queen Anne Christian Church, Seattle First Baptist
Church, Southminster Presbyterian Church, St. Andrew's Lutheran, Temple
B'nai Torah, United Church in University Place, University Congregational
UCC, University Temple United Methodist, Woodland Park Presbyterian
Church.
We are also grateful for the recent support of Bank
of America, Paul Allen Charitable Foundation, Bill & Melinda Gates
Foundation, and the Pride Foundation.
Thank you to The Boeing Company and Seattle
Works for recent service projects at our houses. And thanks to AAA
Pest Control and Nacho, service technician, for free monthly service to
Hillman House. A huge caffeinated thank you to the donor of our ongoing
supply of Fonte Coffee.
AIDS Walk 2004: Thank you to everyone who supported
us for this September’s AIDS Walk, whether through contributioning
financially or by walking. You have demonstrated your commitment to
helping people living with AIDS, and gave us a “leg up” with our
fundraising efforts. We hope to see you on the trail next year.
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Not only are we
maintaining a civil society in our own lifetimes, we also are
adding to its future reserves, helping to ensure its continuity. |
On
the Road
by Rabbi Anson
Laytner, Executive Director
The
siddur, the Jewish prayerbook, is a text that sometimes addresses God with
words of prayer, and sometimes is directed to the reader, with words of
instruction. The words of instruction come either as quotes from the
Tanakh (also known as the Old Testament) or from rabbinic teachings.
One of my
favorite instructive rabbinic passages, which is quoted in the liturgy of
the morning worship service, is the following:
“These
are the things without measure: a person benefits from them in this world
and ‘capital’ is built up in the world to come: to honor father and
mother; to perform acts of lovingkindness; to attend the house of study
daily; to welcome the stranger; to visit the sick; to help make weddings
happen (for poor brides); to console the bereaved; to pray with sincerity;
to make peace between people. But the study of Torah is equal to them all
(because it leads to them all).”
I like the apparent simplicity of the tasks given, even though in reality,
many of them are quite complex - consider “honoring parents” or “praying
with sincerity” or “making peace.” But most of all, I like the dual
concepts of “benefiting now” and “building up capital” later.
I think
the “benefiting now” aspect is pretty obvious. Observing these sorts of
behaviors are essential to maintaining a decent, compassionate society.
But “building up capital” may require some interpretation. In the
traditional way of thinking, doing these good deeds in one’s lifetime also
meant that one was accumulating points to offset one’s accumulated sins on
the Day of Judgment.
I prefer
to think of it as building up social capital. Not only are we maintaining
a civil society in our own lifetimes, we also are adding to its future
reserves, helping to ensure its continuity. Think of the last time you did
a mitzvah, a good deed. Didn’t it improve your sense of your self?
Couldn’t you see how it affected the recipient? Perhaps you had a moment
of hope that the positive energy created would radiate out to others?
Each good
deed we do produces a ripple effect. Obviously, it touches the recipient.
In turn, it improves us. Hopefully, it inspires the recipient to act in a
similar manner. Out and out the ripple goes until, in some infinitesimal
way, the world is also changed for the better. That is what we Jews call
“tikkun olam,” the repair of the world. And this is what Multifaith Works
is all about.
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